Personality first
Ugly Women Dating: Real Women, Real Conversations
A dating site where women do not have to look like models to be wanted, and the profile gets read.
- Free to join
- 18+ only
Looking for an ugly woman dating site? On The Ugly Bug Ball, a man is expected to like a woman for her laugh, her brains and her warmth rather than a perfect selfie. If that's the kind of dating you want, you're in the right place.
The women you will meet
Women on The Ugly Bug Ball are mostly in their late twenties to mid forties: 31% are 25 to 34 and 36% are 35 to 44, with others in their fifties and sixties. About two thirds of them live in America or Britain, with the most in California, New York and London.
Real rather than retouched
A profile here is meant to be read. Look past the photo to what she writes: what makes her laugh, what a good weekend looks like, what she is hoping to find. A woman who can joke about her own looks is showing you her sense of humour, and that tells you more than any filter. If you want someone comfortable in her own skin, who would rather go for chips than for cocktails at a place with a dress code, say so in your own profile.
How to get her attention
There are about three men for every woman on The Ugly Bug Ball, so effort shows. Read her profile properly and mention something she wrote. Ask a real question. Never comment on her looks in the first message, good or bad, and never use the word ugly about her: it is a word for describing yourself, never someone else. Add a clear photo of your own and write a few honest lines, so she knows who is writing. Our dating profile tips show what works.
If you are a woman reading this
Welcome. You can set the ages and distance you want, decide which photos are public, and verify your profile so men know you are real. Members only see your username and nearest town. If anyone is rude about your appearance, block and report them: mocking another member goes against our house rules. Our guide to dating when you feel unattractive was written with you in mind.
Women from their twenties to their sixties
How the women in our membership split by age.
- 18 to 248%
- 25 to 3431%
- 35 to 4436%
- 45 to 5416%
- 55 and over9%
Ugly Women Dating: your questions
Is this an ugly woman dating site?
Yes. Nobody here has to look like a model to be wanted, and ugly is a word you may use about yourself with a smile, never as an insult about anyone else.
Where do the women live?
Mostly in the United States and Britain. California and New York have the most women members, and London leads in the UK.
How old are the women?
Most are between 25 and 44, with others in their fifties and sixties.
Can women join free?
Yes. Joining is free for everyone, and free members can send a number of messages each day.